In the post-grad world, where everyone is either (A) desperate/engaged/married/procreating or (B) terrified of commitment, these male friendships are endearing.He has the ability to commit, if only to the same group of guys. Credit: what is your stance on the forever frat man? Discipline yourself to make time for both; use balance boundaries.It’s easy for us to overlook the point of dating and jump right into the excitement of love.Though DTR’s can feel awkward, it’s part of growing up.
Theme’s have included: Platoon, Graffiti, Head Bangers’ Ball, All Stars, Woodstock, and many more.As image bearers of God, we are called to invest in other relationship for encouragement, service and love.Infatuation can cause us to forget this great need, and we find ourselves losing relationships with friends and family.In my experience, the perpetual frat guy has a few consistent traits: 1. The ridiculous arrogance that was often off-putting in college can give way to a more charmingly sanguine resilience. Fraternities love to win, and post-grad winning looks a lot like upward mobility at a big boy job.There's something commendable about surviving the perils of adulthood relatively unscathed. This is not the guy that will want to go Dutch on the first date, if only out of respect for traditional etiquette. Only now, instead of waking up smelling like stale Natty Light, the perpetual frat boy has graduated to an age-appropriate understanding the finer aspects of liquid courage. You can often observe the grown-up fraternity man in his natural habitat (a bar, festival, sporting event, etc.) re-enacting many of his wild college antics, but with smarter decisions attached.Usually you will have one or two coke dates a week where you and your pledge class take the freshman class of a sorority out on a simple date.